Baby, Go get my pocketbook.
about 15 hours ago • 2 min readChanda Branch Cultural Creative & Transition Strategist What are you carrying into the room, Reader? Quick question before your coffee gets cold: when's the last time somebody sent you to fetch their pocketbook? Because when I was a little girl, that was the honor. "Baby, go get my pocketbook" meant a grown woman trusted you with the most important bag in the building. And those women, my mama, my grandmother, my aunties, the community leaders I grew up studying, carried pocketbooks. Not...
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21 days ago • 1 min readSeptember 2026 She didn't have to do me like that Listen, A lesser woman would have let it ruin her whole day. My daughter is the 8 year old in question and she hit me with a rejection on her birthday. I had to do some mental gymnastics to get myself back on target, and I got some valuable insight in the process. Go read all about it: I Got My Feelings Hurt By An Eight-Year-Old This one...whew! Y'all, pray for me cause I have to go strategize a plan to move us safely into her teen years! I...
READ POSTHot coffee is a hot topic
about 1 month ago • 1 min readSeptember 2026 Temperature check My friends, Do me a favor and hover your hand over your coffee cup. Any warmth? Any steam? Or has it gone completely cold? Again. I came across something called the "cold coffee theory" and it stopped me in my tracks because I couldn't believe that it was happening often enough to other people to need a whole theory. I put my reflections in a letter hot off the presses: Well, Hell, My Coffee's Cold Again. This week, I also created a really fun little quiz...
READ POSTRegistration closes at midnight.
about 1 month ago • 1 min readChanda Branch J9 Collective OK Girl, You've waited long enough. A quick note before I settle in for the evening and finish preparing our space. Registration for The Collective: Leading with Wellness closes tonight at midnight. If you have been circling this experience, wondering whether you need to be there, I’ll leave you with this: You do not have to arrive with the answer. You do not need a perfectly articulated problem. And you certainly don't need to have everything together. That's part...
READ POSTI've been building this room carefully.
about 1 month ago • 1 min readChanda Branch J9 Collective Hey friend, I’ve been shaping The Collective: Leading with Wellness with one question in mind: What would make this worth a Black woman giving me a few precious hours of her life? Not just enjoyable. Not simply inspirational. Useful. Honest. Spacious enough for reflection and structured enough that you leave knowing what to do next. So, I have been building around three practices: Shared Resource Prosperity, Creative Excellence and Strategic Intent. We are going to...
READ POSTBefore you lock in, know what you are locking out.
about 1 month ago • 1 min readSeptember 2026 Naw, I'm good. Hey sis! You know how sometimes you come across something that, in the words of my cousin, "you can't want"? That's where I am am with this particular trend sweeping the internet right now: The Great Lock In or The Winter Arc. If you haven't seen it yet, it's a trend that calls for intense discipline, bordering on deprivation from September through December in order to achieve a set of goals that were set at the beginning of the year. Here's the thing: I don't...
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